Tuesday, November 1, 2016

Transforming 'Town' to 'Community'



“Making Disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world.”

That’s our mission statement at LaFontaine UMC. So what in the world does it mean to “transform” the world? Well, last night at the town Halloween Party we saw what it meant in all of its glory. The entire town came out and worked together and it was amazing. The firefighters made hotdogs and hosted a costume contests for infants to adults. That contest is taken seriously too, with baby gnomes and Pikachus, all the way up to adult gumball machines and family themed Finding Nemo costumes.

The firefighters have been gracious to allow the rest of us to add to their event. This year, next to the fire station, Trunk-or-Treat cars lined up for Trick-or-Treaters. Unlike other Trunk-or-Treats this one was completely community based, with no one organization using it as a marketing tool. Then on the other side of that, the Lion’s Club allowed the Town Park Team to host a bake sale to raise funds for new playground equipment. The Lion’s Club set up next to the fire station with their kettle corn for families too. My favorite addition was from our town’s nursing home. Not only did they provide chili alongside the fire station, but they provided a hay ride across town to their facility, where facility residents passed out candy to trick-or-treaters. In Rolling Meadows’ courtyard, they even set up a haunted maze. 

Okay, so obviously, cool event. But what does that have to do with “transformation?”

Everything. For one thing, this was not a church providing a community service. It was the entire community pulling together and serving each other. It transformed us from a town where people live, to a community where everyone belongs down to our oldest, most vulnerable population. From newly weds, to single moms, everyone was there receiving gifts from nursing home residents. When the nursing home began to run out of candy long before running out of kids, the trunk-or-treat folks gave them some of their stash. We were able to raise money for our town park, a place that physically needs to transform.

This. This is what community looks like. It looks like two teens facetiming to figure out how to make toilet paper into “flesh wounds” and then tying for “scariest costume.” It looks like four different people helping man a bake sale so the mom in charge can participate in trunk-or-treat right outside with her daughter. It looks like 3 families allowing everyone to go in front of them on the hayride and one teenage boy telling the pastor “you sound just like my mom” when he was being considerate of others.  As I whispered to another mom in the midst of the nursing home visit, “This is what community is.”

As a pastor, I am really proud of what my church did to support this party. We didn’t do anything officially as a church, but church people were being faithful disciples in serving their town and building community. Some of us brought in candy for Trunk-or-Treat or treats for the bake sale. Some of us served as firefighters or by passing out candy at Trunk-or-Treat. Others came in and out of costume for the contest and connected with the many people in our community with no church home. By doing this rather than our own Halloween thing, we made a bigger impact on our town and its transformation. We did our mission by being the salt and light in the strangest of places.

Funny how God can take a Halloween party and turn it into something holy and life giving, isn’t it?

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

Be. Hope.


           
"Be. Hope." is our focus for Charge Conference this year. The Indiana United Methodist Church is encouraging us to tell stories of hope in our churches and community. These are the stories of hope I am sharing with other UM churches throughout Indiana. I hope they inspire you to be hope where ever you are.


 
We provide an afterschool program (KICK) every other week. A year ago, we had roughly twelve students per meeting. God doubled that number to an average of 25 kids per meeting and 46 kids coming through the program this last year. We have doubled our volunteers serving these children as well. Almost all of the elementary aged kids served through our Food Pantry attend KICK regularly. At the end of the school year, we invited our KICK kids to our “Summer of Service” Challenge and asked them to do one service project over the summer. Sixteen kids participated in acts of service including visiting the local nursing home, cleaning tables at the Summer Feed Program, raising money for Relay for Life, and helping advertise for VBS. One of our KICK girls had a baby sister this summer, and our KICK leaders were able to reach out to her family with meals and gifts, and now Mom and Dad are married and excited about visiting us for Sunday worship.

Our census for our Food Pantry is up as well, mainly because recipients are sharing this resources out of compassion for their neighbors who are struggling. A year ago this summer, a young family came to use the food pantry. Yesterday the woman came into use the pantry for the first time in a year  separated due to domestic violence. She had lost her transportation. I glanced out the window to see how she had gotten here and there was a neighbor and pantry recipient as well. This neighbor did not have lots of material resources to help, but knew the church was a resource she could offered. As I helped, the neighbor asked about youth group for this woman’s son.  Another food pantry recipient had stopped in earlier in the week offering garden produce. She said she would take fresh produce to the battered neighbor tomorrow. Our Food Pantry is empowering people to share resources with each other.

The town park was vandalized to the point where equipment was not safe. LaFontaine UMC saw this as an opportunity to reach out. Not only did the church raise funds for a new playground fund, but they took it a step further. On May 15, the church participated in “Change the World” Sunday. Along with other community building activities, a team cleared small trees, shrubs, and brush from the “sledding hill” that had not been functional the winter before.  

But God was not done. The people of our congregation noticed that with the closing of the town’s elementary school, there was no place for children to receive free meals over the summer months. This summer over twenty volunteers fed an average of 30 kids and adults weekly through our federally funded Summer Feed Program. God didn’t just use this program to feed families. God used it to build community. Everyday kids would stop in my office and ask me to have lunch with them. Parents would chat and kids would invite friends. A food pantry girl brought clothes to give away on the “share table.” A food pantry boy stayed after and swept up the floors. Another boy took home a piggy bank and brought it back full for Relay for Life.  Little boys who were going to summer school took home free kids books. God did so much more through the feeding program than we anticipated. We expected to feed physically hungry people. God took it and made into a place that filled souls. He used it to create community in our town.

Through KICK and the Summer Feeding program we expanded VBS from serving seven kids in 2015 to serving thirty-five in 2016. God continues to expand our ministry to the unchurched as we continue to be faithful to those he has placed in our hands.

Friday, September 2, 2016

For I was Hungry, and You Gave Me Food



So sometimes something happens that if I don’t share I feel like it is just gonna explode out of me.  This is one of those things. 

A year ago this summer, a young family came to use the food pantry. For some reason, throughout the year, I have randomly found myself praying for them. This summer one of their neighbors stopped into use the pantry and asked me again to pray for them out of their concern. Yesterday the woman came into use the pantry for the first time in a year. She was now separated because he had broken her bone. I prayed for her and talked to her, and made sure she was familiar with all the other resources in the community. She shared that in the separation she had lost her transportation. She asked about stuff to get her and her son involved, and we hooked them up with what the church had to offer. She ended her visit by offering me and the secretary a hug. 

 I glanced out the window to see how she had gotten here and there was another neighbor who had needed to use the pantry as well. This neighbor did not have lots of material resources to help, but knew the church was a resource that could be offered. As I helped the woman take the groceries out to her ride, the neighbor asked about youth group for this woman’s son. 

When I got back in the office I called a food pantry recipient who had stopped in earlier in the week offering to bring in some garden produce to be given away. The secretary said she would take it even though it meant calling up those who used the pantry to make sure it all was picked up before any of it went bad. The recipient hadn’t brought it in yet, and I asked if she was willing to take it over to her neighbor rather than bring it in to us. She said she would do it tomorrow. 
 
So why am I sharing this whole story? Because a week ago I heard that “somebody” heard that the food pantry was being misused so they stopped giving to it. This last month we have had a lot of families coming through, more than usual, and our shelves and account are feeling that crunch. We sometimes hear feedback about people concerned that the pantry is not making disciples.



I share this story so that you can see what I see. In the last year I can think of at least 3 families rebuilding their life after domestic abuse that have found hope through the pantry, 2 of which were in the last month.  It is used by neighbors to love their neighbor and show compassion when they are barely making it themselves. It is used as hub for resources to be shared, and I’m not just talking about food either.  Three neighbors were able to love this woman through the connection of the food pantry. And this story is typical.  These families were able to follow Christ’s example of  loving your neighbor through this community tool!
 
So today is my day off and I went grocery shopping this morning.  And I bought double of those simple things that just cost $1 but can be combined to make a meal. I bought a bag worth for the freezer and a bag worth for the shelves. And I just want to invite you to do the same. Because God is using food as a tool to share hope, to make disciples, and connect our community.